Here's one event that has not yet been yet overrun by the black Escalade and Bridgehampton Polo crowd. The Monday Night Drumming Circle at Sagg Main Beach. The crowd has rapidly expanded this summer via word-of-mouth. It's slated again for tonight at Sagg Main Beach, but we'll see if the weather cooperates.

Sagg Main has been the home base, but the loosely-planned event has rotated beaches a bit, in Montauk two weeks ago. Drumming gets under way at 6:00-6:30 pm and there are plenty of happy souls frolicking at the beach past 10:00 pm. Everyone brings lots of kids, blankets and food. It's a great mellow evening with friends.